I wanted to get back to this List, to let you know how things are turning out.
I bought a used RME hdsp 9652, and a Frontier Tango24 for d/a over ADAT. It is working pretty darn good. I can easily run with 64 sample buffer, no xruns (may try lower), and my digital piano app says my cpu performance factor is 67/100, highest it's ever been. And as some of you said, it actually does seem to SOUND BETTER... :) The piano sounds softer and nicer, as if the hammer felt were softer. The lowest bass notes sound great; low A played with next octave A sounds better together I think. The optical isolation between cpu and Tango has gotten rid of the bad interference/hum I had. I have one amp that can use 1.4v input sensitivity, and 2 others that only can use .7v, but the Tango allows me to set its individual outputs accordingly. There is still very slight hiss, which I guess is unavoidable, but I think I can reduce it by increasing the signal level as much as I can coming from the PC, and turning down the gain some on the amps. Also, it may help to get rid of my 3 ams (woofer/mid/tweeter) and replace them with just the Crown 1502 for woofers, and a multi-channel amp for the rest (and for surround sound speakers, when I get around to adding those.)
Thanks for all the help. I'm happy...
John